Insecurity is the Biggest Turn Off

One of the biggest obstacles men face is insecurity. If you’re not confident about yourself or are feeling nervous, trust me, it shows. This is the one thing that will render you totally unattractive to any woman.

We can detect insecurity and neediness immediately and there’s nothing that will turn us off quite as much as an insecure man.

Are you happy being who you are? Do you think you make for great company? If you are unhappy being who you are, what are the odds that the woman you’re dating would like your company?

Some guys have a great positive aura around themselves and other men are just plain nervous and scared. If you’re insecure, it’s time to change your behavior. Or lose the girl!

Some examples of insecure behavior include allowing others to make all decisions. So, if you are always waiting for her to decide what you will be doing or where you will be going she will definitely see you as an insecure guy.

Most women appreciate men who decide what is going to happen and then simply do it. If she wants to do something else, she will tell you but don’t always expect her to decide everything.

Another way you come off as an insecure guy is if you are always arguing about everything. Even if you are right, it just makes you appear insecure that you have to argue with every little thing.

You should also avoid crowding a woman in the beginning or being too touchy-feely. It’s important to be a little more laid back and let her become comfortable with you or she will believe you are insecure.

If you are constantly touching her she will either think you only want to get laid or that you are afraid she is going to run away.

Your perception of yourself has an enormous impact on how others perceive you and perception is often reality. The more self confidence you have, the more likely you are to meet someone special and have a wonderful meaningful relationship.

In this video you’ll learn 6 helpful tips on how you can attain self-confidence. Work on these six suggestions and you’ll be amazed at the increase in how you feel about yourself:



There is however a huge difference between confidence and arrogance. Arrogance is the faked confidence of people who don’t like themselves, so it’s basically another form of insecurity.

In other words, it shows that someone is not happy being themselves and pretends to be confident so they can fool people into believing they like themselves.

Arrogance is even worse than obvious insecurity because it shows a form of manipulation that may also take the form of physical or emotional manipulation.


By the way, there is a big breakthrough in the science of attraction/seduction and you are going to want to see it… it’s causing quite a firestorm:



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