Emotional Attraction – The Secret to a Deep Connection

If you want lasting, committed relationship with a woman, she needs to feel a unique emotional connection between you two.

In other words, you have to emotionally engage a woman and bring her into your reality.

Why is it so important to create that emotional connection?

• To Build Trust

When you start sharing your feelings, women think that you trust them with your emotions. They like to be trusted. They feel special when you ask them for a shoulder to cry on. Most women believe that relationships should be built on trust and they would like it if you will show this kind of emotion.

• To Give Her an Assurance

To make her feel that the relationship is going somewhere more intense and deep, you need to assure her of what you feel. They like tough guys, but they’ll like it more if they can make tough guys feel something other than being strong and powerful.

• To Take Off Her Fear

Women are most often than not, paranoid. They value emotional integrity a lot. When you start building attraction based from emotions, you take off this fear they have. Assuring her with your feelings goes hand in hand with taking off her doubts and fears.

• To Motivate Her

If you want a woman to keep talking to you and make her stay interested in you, keep her motivated by showing how you feel about her. Your feelings and emotions can stimulate her to chase after you.

Women love the drama. They like talking about feelings and emotions. Women like men who can make them feel that they are being trusted. They want to see you feel at ease and safe. They want to be the one who can understand you through thick and thin. Hence, create emotions when you are building attraction.

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So how do you focus on emotion with women?

You need to focus on her emotions in two distinct stages: the attraction stage and the connection stage.

The attraction stage comes first. When you meet, you must come across as a challenge to her.

There must be some part of her that wonders whether she can have you or whether she’s good enough to get you. You can do this in a lot of ways.

But mostly, in some small way, you are showing her that you are willing to lose her. You are doing small things that indicate to her you are willing to jeopardize the burgeoning `relationship.’

You take risks and act flip

You joke with her or tease her

You disagree with her

You act skeptical of her as a suitor

You demonstrate that you don’t consider yourself a suitor

If you’ve ever met a woman whom you were genuinely ambivalent about, you probably demonstrated the above `naturally.’

The next stage is the connection stage. Once she’s attracted, you can move on to connection.

You do this by getting her to reveal her emotions to you-not her emotions for you, just her feelings about things in general.

In order to get her to reveal her emotions, you must first get personal with her. Find out personal things.

But personal is not the same thing as emotional. “I grew up in Florida,” is not the same thing as “I miss my parents in Florida.”

In order to get her to reveal her feelings, you first ask her personal questions, “Where are you from? Is your family still there?” and then you ask her emotional questions about those personal facts. “How do you feel about that? Do you miss your family?”

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Then you must go back and forth between the attraction and connection stages.

Once you’ve established a good connection, you need to go back to attraction. And then back to connection.

After you’ve gotten  emotional, you’ll gently pull back and challenge her a bit again. And then once again, you’ll concede and connect.

This interaction is somewhat like an emotional roller-coaster ride and it keeps her emotions involved.




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